Soulmated ? !Posted: August 6, 2015
Unlike the chess equivalent, the last move makes all players a winner.
Have you visited Fiji? Even the new luxury resorts are contagious.
Isolated from the locals by fences and a socio-economic divide that can only be measured in light years, the infection they spread is jaw-numbing.
The symptoms begin to appear before you even exit the airport. They grow unrestrained.
Two days into my three-day visit my jaws ache, and my heart has swollen.
It’s inevitable …. this Fijian plague …. a direct consequence of the ever-present goodwill that comes with every utterance of the local greeting: Bula, Bula and the warmth of the grin that follows.
That’s right – smiling, laughing and being continuously overwhelmed with generosity takes it toll.
All the self-imposed barriers we erect around ourselves to survive our busy lives are rapidly stripped away and we stand naked. Exposed to genuine courteous social interaction with no purpose beyond …. genuine courteous social interaction.
Beyond the decadence of our delectable resort, we visit old friends, Suli and her husband Amos – locals we first met over a quarter of a century ago.
They remain in the same cottage in the same coastal village living life the same way as their ancestors have for as long as history records.
Their son, an international jet-setting environmental advisor returns to village life after each trip and sheds his first-world self like a snake sheds its skin … and steps into another world he contently shares with his family and his community.
Our friends, their daughter-in-law and grandchildren host a kava ceremony to welcome us and then treat us to fish caught only hours before, cassava, spinach and banana from their garden garnished with that wonderful Fiji dish of fresh coconut milk and greens.
Spoilt to the point of tears Margot and I savour every morsel to the sound of our friends sharing glimpses of Fijian history through song. We sit stunned, the music hypnotising, the setting breathtaking in its simplicity, the physical and emotional generosity humbling.
Sitting on hand-woven flooring we talk hypnotising and international politics, families, the economy, climate change, the changing world that is Fiji. Worldly people. Admirable.
We left with gifts … unexpected and embarrassingly valuable. … unique handicraft created by Suli and presented to us to celebrate our 25 years of friendship. Pure and simple.
What we carried away however hypnotising a lot more …. a reminder of the power of human bonds, no matter how much time passes between touches.
Their farewell serenade:
Life is a checkerboard of pieces, all part of the one game.
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